First I would like to thank all of you for your wonderful comments, they have filled my otherwise sad heart with a small amount of joy. This is very hard for me to write this I Loved my sister soooo much. The man i hold responsible for this is Stephen (Brad) Christiansen, (my wifes first son with another man, raised by her mother). Stephen is a megalomaniac who that thinks the world revolves around him. There was no reason for him to have brought a man with a gun with him, other than that he knew he was in the wrong an that there may trouble. Add to that that he is a coward and is afraid of his own shadow uness he has backup. In my opinion Stephen deserves to be shot down like a rabid antiscocial dog as he has no redeeming qualities whatsoever. He has ruined his family. Stephens' wife, Stephanie, is as sick if not more so than he is, as are his sycophant friends (only around because of money). Please do not approach him without proper saftey equipment eg. Shot guns, grenades,and some friends as it would not be safe. If there is a just God He will punish Stephen in an appropiate fashion. Though for the life of me i can't imagine anything bad enough.